Monday, October 28, 2013

Is it about a show or true love?

Okay Let’s Chat!  I think that when a man has found the woman that he wants to spend the rest of his life with, that is awesome.  And when he plans to propose to her, it should be a very special, sentimental moment for the both of them.  It should be something that he has thought long and hard about; how he wants this moment to be played out.  Remember, everyone will be asking “How did he propose?”, so you want to make sure that it is something that she will always remember, and not be disappointed.

I decided that I wanted to become a Marriage Proposal Planner because I desire to assist in making sure that this is a moment that will never be forgotten. I am a totally romantic person at heart, and I am one of those ladies that cry joyful tears during those very special moments.

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In our world today, there is a lot of pressure on men to get photographed, get a flash mob, or complete a videotape for all to see. Here are just a couple of examples of how we now have made it so that guys are in competition to create the best proposal that will get 1 zillion views and likes. A guy took 27 minutes to propose to his girlfriend and it is all over the internet and YouTube. Or what about the guys who acted like the plane was about to crash, when it was not, just so he could propose.

I think all of that is great, but we have lost sight of the real picture.  You are proposing to your girlfriend because you love her so much that you want to spend the rest of your life with her.  You see yourself married, with the house, the kids and the pets.  Yes, it is okay to hire a planner to assist you if you want to make sure that it is done right, want help pulling all of the pieces together or you are making it a day long activity.  Just remember, it is about the love your share, not about how many hits you can get on social media.
Don’t get me wrong, seeing these special moments on the internet and reading about them are liked by many. However, I decided that I wanted to do this to help celebrate the love that a man and woman share with each other.  I read an article where many women were disappointed with their proposal because it was not romantic.  I know that you do not want your special lady to be disappointed about the proposal, but you want it to be a special moment that will be told to their grandchildren, not simply viewed on social media.  Just Sayin!

Donna Snyder is the Owner and Lead Party Planner at Simply Unique Parteaz.  She is  THE go-to-party girl that will take couples from the marriage proposal to wedding planning, from the 1st anniversary dinner to 1st baby shower.  She is a fun spirited, dedicated, glamorous planner and designer that loves a good romantic movie.   If she could throw a party every weekend, You bet she would!  She loves to create a warm, friendly and relaxing atmosphere where people can have FUN.
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